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Free guide · 2026 edition · For mentoring program directors & match staff

Safe Matches

A mentor screening and match-safety playbook for youth mentoring programs

What the national mentoring standard expects, what a real background check covers, and how to keep every one-on-one relationship safe for the life of the match.

Cover of Safe Matches
  • 19 pages, written for mentoring program directors
  • 12 chapters and a 30-day rollout plan
  • A policy checklist and a family letter you can copy
  • Every standard, statute and statistic cited

Who this guide is for

Mentoring program directors, match support staff, volunteer coordinators and boards — at Big Brothers Big Sisters–style community programs, school- and site-based programs, faith-based mentoring ministries, workplace programs and e-mentoring platforms. If your program pairs an adult with a young person, this guide is written for you.

34%

of young people never had an adult mentor of any kind — an estimated 16 million.

The Mentoring Effect (2014)

93%

of people who sexually assaulted a juvenile were known to the child — family or acquaintances. Only 7% were strangers.

Bureau of Justice Statistics

$5

for a full, identity-verified background check on a mentor — or $0 to the program if mentors cover their own.

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From the executive summary

Six things every mentoring leader should know

  1. 1

    The one-on-one relationship is both the power and the risk.

    The CDC calls for more stringent screening where an organization’s mission requires one-on-one time — and names mentoring programs.

  2. 2

    The national standard sets the bar.

    MENTOR’s Elements of Effective Practice calls for a written application, a face-to-face interview, a criminal history check, reference checks and a formal commitment.

  3. 3

    Screen more deeply where youth visit homes or ride in cars.

    Home assessments, checks on other adults in the home, and driving records.

  4. 4

    The FCRA governs how you screen volunteers.

    Consent before the check, and specific notices before turning anyone away because of it.

  5. 5

    Screening is one layer, not the whole plan.

    Match support for the life of the match, and clear rules for contact, outings, transportation and digital communication, do the rest.

  6. 6

    Re-screen as matches continue.

    MENTOR suggests periodic re-screening — for example, reexamining criminal history every three years.

What's inside

  • 01

    The short version

    The whole case on one page — read it before your next staff or board meeting.

  • 02

    Why one-on-one relationships need a real safeguard

    Time alone by design, homes and cars, growing trust and digital contact.

  • 03

    What the national standard expects

    MENTOR’s Element 6 (2025) and the 4th edition’s screening benchmarks.

  • 04

    What the law and your funders require

    Federal grants, AmeriCorps, California and Pennsylvania — and the FCRA.

  • 05

    What a real background check covers

    The five components to insist on, and what your model adds.

  • 06

    Who in your program should be screened

    Mentors of every model, household adults, match staff, peer mentors and leadership.

  • 07

    Match safety: screening is the foundation, not the house

    Match support, contact rules, outings, transportation, home visits and closure.

  • 08

    When a check isn’t clean

    Written criteria, a fair review, and the adverse-action steps the law requires.

  • 09

    When someone raises a concern

    A response plan every mentoring program should adopt.

  • 10

    A 30-day rollout plan

    Screen new and existing mentors without interrupting a match.

  • 11

    Paying for it, and telling families

    What it costs, and how to give parents a real role.

  • 12

    Community, school, faith-based, workplace, group and e-mentoring

    What changes for your program model.

  • A

    Appendix A: Mentoring program safety policy checklist

    Draft or audit your written policies before matching.

  • B

    Appendix B: Letter to families

    How we screen our mentors — ready for your enrollment packet.

  • C

    Appendix C: Free tools, further reading and sources

    Match tracker, free training and every citation.

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Questions

Is the guide really free?
Yes. Sign in with Google or LinkedIn and the PDF opens right away. Signing in doesn’t set up an organization, start a trial, or charge anything.
Does the national mentoring standard require background checks?
Yes. MENTOR’s Elements of Effective Practice for Mentoring (5th edition, 2025) calls for a criminal history records check as part of mentor screening — ideally a national FBI fingerprint check — along with a written application, a face-to-face interview and at least two references.
Should we screen other adults who live in a mentor’s home?
Where a young person may visit or meet at the mentor’s home, MENTOR’s standard encourages checking the other adults who live there, along with a home assessment. Site-based programs where matches never meet at home may reasonably skip those steps.
Is this legal advice?
No. It is general education. Requirements vary by state, funder and program model — confirm yours with your funders and qualified counsel.

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