Free guide · 2026 edition · For mentoring program directors & match staff
Safe Matches
A mentor screening and match-safety playbook for youth mentoring programs
What the national mentoring standard expects, what a real background check covers, and how to keep every one-on-one relationship safe for the life of the match.

- 19 pages, written for mentoring program directors
- 12 chapters and a 30-day rollout plan
- A policy checklist and a family letter you can copy
- Every standard, statute and statistic cited
Who this guide is for
Mentoring program directors, match support staff, volunteer coordinators and boards — at Big Brothers Big Sisters–style community programs, school- and site-based programs, faith-based mentoring ministries, workplace programs and e-mentoring platforms. If your program pairs an adult with a young person, this guide is written for you.
34%
of young people never had an adult mentor of any kind — an estimated 16 million.
The Mentoring Effect (2014)
93%
of people who sexually assaulted a juvenile were known to the child — family or acquaintances. Only 7% were strangers.
Bureau of Justice Statistics
$5
for a full, identity-verified background check on a mentor — or $0 to the program if mentors cover their own.
VolunteerBadge pricing
From the executive summary
Six things every mentoring leader should know
- 1
The one-on-one relationship is both the power and the risk.
The CDC calls for more stringent screening where an organization’s mission requires one-on-one time — and names mentoring programs.
- 2
The national standard sets the bar.
MENTOR’s Elements of Effective Practice calls for a written application, a face-to-face interview, a criminal history check, reference checks and a formal commitment.
- 3
Screen more deeply where youth visit homes or ride in cars.
Home assessments, checks on other adults in the home, and driving records.
- 4
The FCRA governs how you screen volunteers.
Consent before the check, and specific notices before turning anyone away because of it.
- 5
Screening is one layer, not the whole plan.
Match support for the life of the match, and clear rules for contact, outings, transportation and digital communication, do the rest.
- 6
Re-screen as matches continue.
MENTOR suggests periodic re-screening — for example, reexamining criminal history every three years.
What's inside
- 01
The short version
The whole case on one page — read it before your next staff or board meeting.
- 02
Why one-on-one relationships need a real safeguard
Time alone by design, homes and cars, growing trust and digital contact.
- 03
What the national standard expects
MENTOR’s Element 6 (2025) and the 4th edition’s screening benchmarks.
- 04
What the law and your funders require
Federal grants, AmeriCorps, California and Pennsylvania — and the FCRA.
- 05
What a real background check covers
The five components to insist on, and what your model adds.
- 06
Who in your program should be screened
Mentors of every model, household adults, match staff, peer mentors and leadership.
- 07
Match safety: screening is the foundation, not the house
Match support, contact rules, outings, transportation, home visits and closure.
- 08
When a check isn’t clean
Written criteria, a fair review, and the adverse-action steps the law requires.
- 09
When someone raises a concern
A response plan every mentoring program should adopt.
- 10
A 30-day rollout plan
Screen new and existing mentors without interrupting a match.
- 11
Paying for it, and telling families
What it costs, and how to give parents a real role.
- 12
Community, school, faith-based, workplace, group and e-mentoring
What changes for your program model.
- A
Appendix A: Mentoring program safety policy checklist
Draft or audit your written policies before matching.
- B
Appendix B: Letter to families
How we screen our mentors — ready for your enrollment packet.
- C
Appendix C: Free tools, further reading and sources
Match tracker, free training and every citation.
Questions
- Is the guide really free?
- Yes. Sign in with Google or LinkedIn and the PDF opens right away. Signing in doesn’t set up an organization, start a trial, or charge anything.
- Does the national mentoring standard require background checks?
- Yes. MENTOR’s Elements of Effective Practice for Mentoring (5th edition, 2025) calls for a criminal history records check as part of mentor screening — ideally a national FBI fingerprint check — along with a written application, a face-to-face interview and at least two references.
- Should we screen other adults who live in a mentor’s home?
- Where a young person may visit or meet at the mentor’s home, MENTOR’s standard encourages checking the other adults who live there, along with a home assessment. Site-based programs where matches never meet at home may reasonably skip those steps.
- Is this legal advice?
- No. It is general education. Requirements vary by state, funder and program model — confirm yours with your funders and qualified counsel.
Keep going
- Youth mentoring background checksHow mentoring programs screen mentors, from $5.
- Mentor match trackerFree workbook: matches, check-ins and screening dates.
- MLK Day mentoring screeningScreening mentors recruited during National Mentoring Month.
- Tutoring volunteer screeningScreening for tutors and one-on-one academic programs.
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